The idea that the other man can be more "dominant" that you are is the next important thing that I want to talk about.
The alpha male during caveman days had a real power - he knows where to get resources like food, and was physically stronger, that he could beat up competitors. The concept of the alpha male is completely obsolete.
But ask yourself if those powers are relevant today. Every man with a source of income can survive on his own - if you're reading this, you probably have access to food and shelter. You're all set.
Plus, in this modern world it is irrelevant to use the physical strength just to beat people up. It's illegal.
Attacking another person will always end you up defeated because the police always win.
If you think about it, you are LETTING RANDOM GUYS STOP YOU FOR NO REASON!
Just excuse my French, but who is HE to say who YOU talk to???
It makes me mad- I recall all the women I missed out on because I was worried about some DUDE. And I get mad knowing that other guys are dealing with same crap!
When you're on your deathbed, you are going to look back on all the things you did and didn't do. How painful would it be to say "I didn't meet that girl because I was scared of another guy," or "there were so many beautiful women I could've enjoyed, but I didn't even try because I saw them TALKING to another guy."
I don't want you to be like that.
So let's analyze it deeply. You truly don't understand dominance if you are seeing the other guy as more dominant.
You see, you instantly consider yourself NOT dominant when you're concerned with who is more dominant. There's a better focus.
To be dominant, you must first THINK like a dominant man. And dominant men don't think about who is dominant. So what do dominant men think about? Whatever it is they are doing or want.
So you see another guy talking to a group of girls. Instead of worrying about whether or not he's more dominant than you, focus on the girls.
It's proven to be a waste of time if I have to acknowledge other guys. Out of 10 women, 9 of them doesn't even know the guy - they just meet him.
Or if they do know the guy, it's because he was a friend of ONE of the girls, and the rest barely know him.
It's seldom for women to go out with a guy they are dating - normally they will bring a guy that is more of a protector/friend because a guy like that is more valuable when they go out on the town.
Besides, if he IS with one of the girls, that means he's NOT with the other girls - they are fair game.
When you are concerned with who's the alpha male, you are by definition NOT the alpha male. In fact, it's questionable whether alpha males truly exist in the modern world.
Avoid some assumption, just get your focus in a USEFUL place, and don't allow some random dude to stop you from enjoying YOUR LIFE!
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