Speed Dating Tips

By Lisa Jaye

Have you ever thought about giving speed dating a try? Speed dating is perfect for someone who's short on time but really wants to get out there, socialize, and meet some great people. Here are some interesting things about this fairly new way to date.

Speed daters rotate from station to station every few minutes and meet a new potential mate at each station. Each person takes turns asking the other person at their station questions until the clock expires and then they move onto the next station. They take notes on each date so they can figure out who they do or do not want to see again after the speed dating session.

Each dater takes notes on each date so they can sort of who they do or do not want to see again after the speed dating session. At most speed dating events the woman stay at the same station for the entire session while the males move station to station to meet each woman.

A unique feature of speed dating is that participants are not allowed to ask each other out directly. Only those daters that have expressed mutual interest in each other will be given contact information to get in touch with their potential mate outside of the speed dating arena. This is a plus for those people who have a hard time handling rejection since they never have to deal with it face-to-face. Of course there is a possibility that no one will be interested in seeing you again. In this case, you would leave the speed dating event feeling much worse than before the event and you'd be unlikely to attend a speed dating event in the future.

A unique feature of speed dating is that participants are not allowed to ask each other out directly. Only those daters that have expressed mutual interest in each other will be given contact information to get in touch with their potential mate outside of the speed dating arena. This is a plus for those people who have a hard time handling rejection since they never have to deal with it face-to-face.

Most speed dating services charge between $25 and $60 per person. The fee normally includes a couple of free drinks or a meal or snacks. Most speed dating sessions have between 50 and 150 participants, half male and half female.

One negative fact of speed dating is that you are forced to spend your time on "dates" with people you are not attracted to and have no interest in wasting both your time and money. Of course it's only a few minutes and will be well worth it if you end up meeting someone special at that event.

If you do decide to give speed dating a try just be sure to follow one simple rule. No matter what happens HAVE FUN!

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Dating Tips for Men: Keeping the Girl

By Vin DiCarlo

Just when I know how to escalate and get good with women quickly, I think of those women I slept with but couldn't keep around.

And it's quite sad.

There are so many women that has the ability to be a great girlfriend.

But I had my head up my ass.

...maybe that's a little rude.

But it comes to TWO different problems:

First, I tried to prove something to myself. I was still a recovering nerd. And I've never fully recovered. And stopped trying to recover. And that's what's made me move past this "proving myself" thing.

I've accepted what I am.

Sure, I like comic books and video games.

But...

Do you think women have cooler interests?

Is getting drunk, Myspace and shopping is cooler than what I'm into?

It's all have connection.

Self-acceptance is what really matters.

A girl won't accept you if you don't accept yourself first.

Can you picture out a woman wanting to be your girlfriend and you don't like yourself?

She will HATE your presence and don't want to be around you.

Because you can't really like a woman, if you don't like yourself. And if you do like her, but not yourself, then you look like a total loser. And who wants to date a loser?

It may sound easy, but self-acceptance is hard to do. How many times have you hear these from people "I don't care what anyone thinks of me!"

Almost NO ONE accepts themselves completely, that's in my experience.

And I'm not excepted from them.

The amount on how you accept yourself is the amount also on how women find you attractive, and people want to be around you.

It may be hard to completely accept yourself. There is an old beliefs creep in and saying you are not enough, that you must be more than yourself now.

The degree to which your game becomes better is if you know the degree to which you stop these thoughts.

Because game is really about being yourself, not doubting yourself. And game doesn't stop after your opener, after "mating", after a few dates. It never stops.

Because that's you.

You are not separate from your game.

Your game IS YOU. This game is the degree to which you can demonstrates who you are.

You might be thinking "But I'm insecure, nervous and awkward." I disagree. That's not you.

That is the distorted you.

That is you trying to come out, but your ego, your old mental habits stop you from expressing what you really want to express.

Before I get too deep into that, I want to move on to the second reason why I couldn't keep women around after I slept with them.

I am not aware of shaping.

Knowing what you want is really just an extension of self-acceptance. And shaping is all about knowing what YOU want. If you don't know what you want, you can't shape.

In fact, it's self-acceptance, applied to others. You know what you like, and you encourage women to be that for you.

As you know, women are very flexible. They have many sides that they can reveal to a man. Guys usually tell women to be selfish, mean, and act like they are better than a guy.

But it's not really her fault. She's just doing what she's told. Women are always looking to men to get a sense of reality.

So if you approach and treat a woman like a pedestal, she will act accordingly.

If you approach her and treat her like she's lucky you talked to her, she'll feel that way.

Same through after mating, if you treat her like she should stay in your life and nurture your lifestyle, she will do so.

This was tackled deeper in our workshop. I've developed a lot of things to shape a woman to be EXACTLY the kind of woman I want in my life.

Women are different from each other. Like for instance, I may want a girl to be just a partner in bed. I may want another woman to be a sugar mama! I may want another one to be a girlfriend. It all depends on what you want.

I remember all the crappy, frustrating relationships I used to have.

I remember all the hookups I had as a young pickup artist, and how frustrating it was to not see those women again.

But when I began to accept myself and analyze what I wanted, it all came together.

The Attraction Code is all about figuring out who you are, accepting and cultivating your character, and then applying that to the women you want to meet, sleep with, and date.

If you're struggling with self acceptance and letting the real YOU shine through The Attraction Code is a MUST HAVE.

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Green Card Marriage

By Mueller Kemp

I want to go to the States for education. Will the Green Card be useful for me? In the US, yes. Public Universities give discounts for those who have a Green Card. Besides, when you have the Green Card, your possibility to receive a scholarship and/or loan from the American government increases. Also, do not forget that you are allowed to work; you can work wherever you want and make a living.

I believe I have been cheated by a mediator company, what can I do? Those who believe that they have been cheated about the Green Card lottery by an American company or consultant can apply to the local customer rights protection organizations or to the Federal Trade Commission - FTC in America.

Will applicants who do not win be informed? No. Only those who win will be informed. Letters informing the winners will be sent to applicants' addresses stated on the application form within 9 months after the application period. Those who do not receive such a letter will understand that they have not been selected.All mails received at the Kentucky Consular Center are separated into one of the six geographical regions and are given numbers. At the end of the application period a computer selects randomly from the mails received for each geographical region.

What Do Canadian Trained Physicians Need To Do To Practice In The U.S.? Physicians who completed medical school and residency in Canada have several options when it comes to practicing in the U.S. One option Canadian physicians can pursue is to obtain a temporary ""H-1B visa."" This type of visa is reserved for professionals and is good for up to six years. The advantage of the H-1B is that it usually can be obtained fairly quickly (see below). To qualify for an H-1B, Canadian physicians must receive an offer of employment from a U.S.

How many people will win the Green Card lottery? This number varies from year to year but are usually very similar to each other. Last year, about 50,000 people managed to acquire Green Card. After the draw, almost 90,000 people were informed that they won the lottery . However, only 50,000 of them had the right to have their Cards.Those who believe that they have been cheated about the Green Card lottery by an American company or consultant can apply to the local customer rights protection organizations or to the Federal Trade Commission - FTC in America. To register a complaint on the internet, you can find the on-line complaint form at FTC can be reached through 1-877-FTC-HELP (382-4357) for free or from the number or , which you will pay.On August 1, 2001 two changes regarding last year's conditions were announced, related to the photograph added to the application forms and the address of the sender.

Are there any changes in the conditions regarding last year? On August 1, 2001 two changes regarding last year's conditions were announced, related to the photograph added to the application forms and the address of the sender. Furthermore, adequacy and equivalence for the condition, ""within the past 5 years, a work experience of at least 2 years in a job which requires specialty and experience with at least 2 years education"" will be determined as to the criteria of the U.S.A. Department of Labor. ( You can visit the web site Each of them has the right to apply for individually.

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Making an Online Dating Profile

By Lisa Jaye

So you've taken the plunge into online dating. You found a great site and you're ready to get started. Now what? Well one of the first things you have to do is write a really good online profile about yourself.

No great detail is needed for your online profile. Just write like you're writing to the man or woman you seek. Write a little about yourself, give a little background, state one or more of your unique qualities. Next, write a little about the person you're seeking. You'll save some time if you write and save all your profile data to a text editor or word processor file. Then, you can COPY and PASTE it to the proper areas of your online dating profile. As things change, and as you grow, you will want to update and modify your profile statements.

Next you need to upload a picture. As you know a picture is worth a thousand words. You will generally get a 3 to 10 time's better response with a posted photo than without. People don't generally spend much time on profiles with no photos... so take the hint.

If you don't own a digital camera, web cam, or scanner, take a few photos and a diskette to your local Office Depot, Staples, or general office supply store. They should be able to scan and copy your photos to your diskette. Then you can easily add one or more to your dating site profile. You could also ask friends and relatives who own a digital camera or scanner. Digital cameras are very inexpensive these days. Check eBay for some of the best deals.

Once you upload your picture and profile the key is to stay focused and be active in your particular dating community. You may want to start a journal to track your "love search" progress. Make notes on how many profiles you?ve looked at and how many people are looking at yours. Tweak and update your profile periodically to keep it fresh.

When I first started, I also wrote out a statement describing what I wanted to accomplish by joining a dating site. You may want to do the same. These statements and a well-kept journal will help keep you focused and organized. Organized endeavors always yield greater results than haphazard approaches.

One final thing when you?re dating online is to be careful and always use sound judgment. Don?t give out any personal information like your address or social security. If you decide to meet someone in person always make sure it?s in an open, public place and always let a friend know where you?ll be and when you?ll be returning home.

All in all online setting up your online profile is fairly simple and straight forward. Remember to be honest and be yourself. That way you'll be sure to meet someone who likes the real you.

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What Adult Dating Online Services Can Offer You

By Ray Lam

What can adult dating online services offer you? Well after looking around and finding the right online dating service, you narrow your preferences down to one good service that fits your needs. You must make the decisions that will benefit you in the end.

Every individual's personal goal is to be happy and when they find a companion to stand by their side it becomes easier to achieve this goal. Adult dating online services can offer many benefits to an individual who is open to dating random people from different cultures and backgrounds. Adult dating online services can offer the opportunity to find new and lasting friendships while searching for the perfect mate. Through this journey the individual has a chance to meet new and different people. It is also allows the individual to attend different social events and singles parties where the chance of meeting a soul mate increases.

However, it is never easy to find the other half who can shares your beliefs, hobbies and goals in life. This is why adult dating services come into the picture in here instead. If you're looking for a beer and a random conversation with a cigarette-puffing stranger, a bar or night club is the place to be, period. But if you're searching for something more profound, you're likely to find it with the assistance of online adult dating services.

The anonymity of these sites give those first exploring them the courage to continue, and when they learn that there are others who share their sexual tendencies, they become less concerned about the stigma which may be attached to their activities. Adult dating online sites are one place where many people finally feel like they fit in.

There are, of course, many adult dating online services geared towards those who are genuinely interested in finding others with whom they can build lasting relationships. Adult dating online sites designed to bring people together for companionship are one of the best ways that busy career people can find time to meet other compatible people without having to go on date after date.

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Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part I

By Vin DiCarlo

Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?

And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?

If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.

I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.

You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.

Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.

Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.

YOU have to have the courage to approach.

YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.

Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.

(Let's not started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "beautiful.")

It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.

... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.

I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.

Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.

I would have to sit down and rest!

Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.

I would go home and be absolutely DEAD

... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!

Does that make any sense???

There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.

I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!

When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)

But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).

It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.

I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.

If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.

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