First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.
You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.
However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.
Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.
They want to be approached. This of course, isn't always true, but is generally the case.
You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.
Lastly, another good prospect are woman that are looking around the room more than the other girls that she's with. Also a group of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room are another prospect.
They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.
Now when you approach, take it easy - don't go in full-steam running your clever routines and your cocky frame control stuff.
You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.
You should not openly discuss to the woman that you are looking to take her home and get her into bed. Because, if you talk about that, you're putting a woman to a point where is to agree to implicitly bang with you.
Rather you want to build sensual tension, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.
This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.
The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.
You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.
It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.
You have to believe that women wants to have sex and a lot of women in the place wants to have a fast getting laid down.
Some won't and some will, and that is why you need to know how to spot and get them.
I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.
It's not worth wasting your time for that.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is an expert pick up artist trainer, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified
