One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

By Vin DiCarlo


First of all, if you're going for a one-night stand, there's one thing you need to know -- You won't always be able to get the hottest girl in the venue to go home with you.

You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.

The things that I look in spotting them are in the way how they dressed, how much make-up they put on their face and other things that relates to how they look physically. Remember that there is a reason why women exert a lot of effort in order to look beautiful.

They want to be approached. This of course, isn't always true, but is generally the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.

They are basically putting themselves out there, waiting for someone to approach them.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.

The key here is not to openly discuss getting in sensual or that you are looking to take her home. You see, if you talk about that, you'll put her on the spot and make her agree to bang with you, implicitly.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

The woman will force herself to keep distance from you because that is against her "rules". And you need a logistic information in order to figure out how to bring her back to your place

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

You have to be willing to let go of controlling the situation, and just enjoy yourself, while escalating appropriately.

Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.

You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.

Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.

I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

It's not worth wasting your time for that.

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