By Vin DiCarlo
Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.
But first off, let go waaay back...
It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.
That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...
She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.
We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).
I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.
It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.
I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...
Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.
I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.
Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.
First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".
The only true "10" is the one that's perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.
Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.
Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.
Why?
Because a lot of guys do that.
A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.
But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.
This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.
As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."
Let me clarify.
You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.
First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.
She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.
Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.
There are two types of "10's."
High self esteem, and low self-esteem.
Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.
In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.
It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.
These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.
Anything.
(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)
Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.
These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.
Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.
Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).
Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?
The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.
But here's the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.
Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.
You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.
There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.
But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."
She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."
The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.
There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.
Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.
Vin
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