Looking for Love Online, Who Isn't

By Louise Servage

Can this be true, while you hope that you will find love the old fashioned way, the truth is finding love in clubs, pubs and supermarkets is not as easy as it sounds. Today people are feeling more useless in finding love.

Well you can quietly gain some happiness because you are not alone. Today lifestyle make finding love nearly impossible. People are starting to think that it is the norm. Large cities are starting to become really lonely places.

Not wanting to be all doom and gloom the reason for today's message is to offer hope by giving suggestions for people with a shortage of time. Time starved people need love to, this is where the technological advances of the 21st century come into play.

We all know that the proliferation of fast food outlets is simply because people have no time, they are time starved and because you cannot simply rush in and find love like at a fast food joint what can you do. Well don't despair there is an answer.

Today websites make finding love online as easy as submitting your personal details and picture online, while you have to add a whole bunch of personal details; this makes finding a compatible companion easier. That's another benefit of web dating you can start your search by filtering people with things you don't / do like.

Websites offer you a great return for the time it takes to set up, as well as your love investment, as they allow you to make great contacts easily. In fact using the Internet to find love is now becoming more the norm, more mainstream if you will.

With matchmaking websites able to narrow down your desired characteristics that you seek in a potential partner (with your help) has allowed this method to become more the norm. In fact the popularity of this dating method over the years has be quite unbelievable.

While dating sites don't take all the work out of finding love, they do help. No longer do you need to spend countless hours standing at the bar, now all you need to do is simply input your details online to put yourself out there. But remember you still have to meet and communicate to your potential partners to establish the love connection. No matter how you look at it love is still a personal thing.

The truth is finding love has been revolutionized in the 21st century by dating websites the trick is to find the right one to start your search. The good news is there are thousands of websites that will point you in the right direction. So find your self a good dating website review article and join up many are free to list, so start your search Today.

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Louise Servage writes for Find Love a website dedicated to helping people online find your match with tons of theorys, we are there to serve our members over 50 free articles.

One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

By Vin DiCarlo

There's one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.

You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.

However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.

Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.

You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.

The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.

You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.

Some will and some won't, and what you should know is to figure out and proceed to get them.

I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

That's a HUGE waste of time.

About the Author:

Vin DiCarlo is a professional pick up artist trainer, who's highly controversial website DiCarlo DiClassified

Going on a first date? Do it the right way.

By Lisa Jaye

Despite what some may have you to believe dating can sometimes be a real pain in the butt. With so many mixed signals out there, trying to make your way through the dating maze can really be tough. Here are some tips to consider when dating:

A shared sense of humor is important. Try to bring laughter to the date. Try to get a laugh out of the guy. That way you know you've got something. If he doesn't get your jokes what else is he going to "get" about you?

Be yourself. People sometimes try too hard to impress. If they just relax a little, the date will go better and they will not have to worry about any of those little embellishments backfiring later on. The worst thing people do on first dates is lie. They are trying to improve their status so you will be interested in them.

Have realistic expectations about a first date. Some people start planning their wedding and others expect the worst. Usually all this will do is put a strain on the relationship before it even begins.

There is a difference between first dates and the first face-to-face contact with someone you connect with through a dating service or ad. That is a meeting to assess each other, not a date.

If you are comfortable and seem to be compatible set up a date to spend more time together. Remember that the first date is supposed to be fun. You are getting to know this person and he is getting to know you. It should not be something that feels like a meeting with your boss.

If the date turns out to be a dud do not make any promises you will not keep. Do not be encouraging if you feel no interest in further socializing. Be honest and say you feel there is not a basis for anything other than friendship and let your date take it from there. Pick yourself up and move on.

Remember that the first date is supposed to be fun. You are getting to know this person and he is getting to know you. It should not be something that feels like a meeting with your boss. So relax, enjoy yourself, be natural, and go with the flow!

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Great Defensive Tools For The Average Consumer

By Chris Channing

Getting attacked or robbed is going to put anyone's day into a downward spiral. But thanks to technology ,there are some great products that can make even the most frightening robbery a cake walk. But because of the selection available, most consumers don't know where to start or even what they are getting themselves into.

The most common type of self defense used today is pepper spray. Pepper spray is going to make the victim blinded temporarily, thanks to the effect they have on the blood vessels in the eye. Pepper spray will also make it difficult for the victim to breathe, which can also help subdue an attacker. Either way, a good shot of pepper spray is going to give a perfect chance for a getaway.

Stun guns are also quite popular for those who don't have enough strength to get away from a heavily built male. Often times most who use stun guns are females, as they can quickly disable an attacker and force them to the ground in seconds. Although more costly, stun guns can come in many varieties, and can even have longer ranges than pepper spray to make for more safety.

Knives aren't commonly used for self defense, since not many are skillfully trained in using knives. Others don't like the fact that most metal detectors will cause a scene if they are carrying a concealed knife. But for settings such as the office or even at home, concealed knives that are manufactured to look like pens can give the defensive victim the precious act of surprise.

One can take a page from the police handbook by obtaining a hand baton. Batons are used since they are easily conceal, expand upon a flick of the wrist, and can be a very large deterrent in an attack. Batons are made to sting as much as they injure the victim of the blow. Of course this requires direct contact, so most batons are best suited for males who can wield them with a sense of confidence.

Air guns are another solution for consumers who want the power of a gun, but in a non-lethal force. Police commonly use air pistols and rifles to help bring riots under control and in other intense situations where lethal force is not a good idea. Air guns are harder to conceal, however, and will require practice to use correctly.

Final Thoughts

We just can't get enough of new gadgets that provide for more security- but it'll cost a bit of money to guarantee one's safety. For the best solution to one's certain situation, consult a self defense expert and friends or family members of items they would recommend.

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Dating Tips for Creating Relationships

By Vin DiCarlo

Just when I know how to escalate and get good with women quickly, I think of those women I slept with but couldn't keep around.

And it's quite sad.

There are lots of women that has the potential to become a great girlfriend.

But I had my head higher than my ass.

...maybe that's a little harsh.

But this comes down from TWO distinct problems:

First, I was trying to prove something to myself. I was still a recovering nerd. And I've never fully recovered. But I've stopped trying to recover. And that's what's made me move past this "proving myself" thing.

I've accepted what I am.

Sure, I like comic books and video games.

But...

Do you think girls have cooler interests?

Is shopping, getting drunk and Myspace are cooler than what I'm into?

It's all have connection.

What it really need is self-acceptance.

If you don't accept yourself, women won't accept you also.

Can you imagine a woman wanting to be your girlfriend when you don't like yourself?

She will HATE to be with you and not wanting to be around with you.

Because you can't really like a woman, if you don't like yourself. And if you do like her, but not yourself, then you look like a total loser. And who wants to date a loser?

Although it sounds easy but self-acceptance is rare. How often do you hear people say, "I don't care what anyone thinks of me!"

Based on my experience, almost all DON'T ACCEPT themselves completely.

And I'm not excepted from them.

How you accept yourself is how women find you attractive, and people likes to be around you.

It may be hard to completely accept yourself. There is an old beliefs creep in and saying you are not enough, that you must be more than yourself now.

The degree to which your game becomes better is if you know the degree to which you stop these thoughts.

Because the real game is about yourself and not doubting about yourself. And the game doesn't end after your opener, after a few dates, after "making love." It never ends that way.

Because that's you.

You are not separated from your game.

Your game IS YOU. This game is the degree to which you can demonstrates who you are.

Maybe you think "But I'm nervous and insecure and awkward." I don't agree. That's not you.

That is the indistinct you.

That is you trying to come out, but your ego, your old mental habits stop you from expressing what you really want to express.

Before I proceed deeper, I want first to go to the second reason why I couldn't keep girls around after sleeping with them.

I wasn't aware of shaping.

Shaping is all about knowing what YOU want. You can't shape if you don't know what you want. The extension of self-acceptance is knowing what you want.

In fact, it is self-acceptance, applied to others. You encourage women to do to you what you like if you know what you like also.

You see, women are very flexible. They have many sides that they can reveal to a man. Men usually implicitly tell women to be selfish, mean, and act like they are better than the man.

But it's not the woman's fault. She's just doing what she's told. Women are always looking to men to get a sense of reality.

So if you approach and treat a woman like a pedestal, she will act accordingly.

If you approach her and treat her like she's lucky you talked to her, she'll feel that way.

Same through after mating, if you treat her like she should stay in your life and nurture your lifestyle, she will do so.

We go into this heavily in our workshops. I've developed lots of ways to shape a woman to be EXACTLY the kind of woman I want in my life.

And each woman is different. For example, I may want one woman to be just a mating partner. I may want another woman to be a sugar mama! I may want another one to be a girlfriend. It all depends on what you want.

I used to remember all the crappy, frustrating relationships I have.

And how frustrating it was to not see those women again using all the hookups I had as a young pickup artist.

But once I began to accept myself and figure out what I wanted, it all came together.

The Attraction Code is all about finding out who you are, accepting and cultivating your character, and then applying that to the girls you want to meet, sleep with, and date.

If you're struggling with self acceptance and letting the real YOU shine through The Attraction Code is a MUST HAVE.

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Great first date tips

By Lisa Jaye

Despite what some may have you to believe dating can sometimes be a real pain in the butt. With so many mixed signals out there, trying to make your way through the dating maze can really be tough. Here are some tips to consider when dating:

When you're going out with someone plan your date carefully. Look for something creative and make sure it allows you to interact. It will help if the activity relates to a shared interest, such as art or music. Doing something you enjoy takes the pressure off. Be light and humorous. Lots of laughing always makes for a great date so don't take yourself too seriously.

Be yourself. People sometimes try too hard to impress. If they just relax a little, the date will go better and they will not have to worry about any of those little embellishments backfiring later on. The worst thing people do on first dates is lie. They are trying to improve their status so you will be interested in them.

Do not give up. But if things do not go well be prepared. Take your cell phone along on the date. A discreet call to a friend can help you engineer an early end to the date gone wrong.

There is a difference between first dates and the first face-to-face contact with someone you connect with through a dating service or ad. That is a meeting to assess each other, not a date.

There is a difference between first dates and the first face-to-face contact with someone you connect with through a dating service or ad. That is a meeting to assess each other, not a date.

Look for something creative and make sure it allows you to interact. It will help if the activity relates to a shared interest, such as art or music.

Remember that the first date is supposed to be fun. You are getting to know this person and he is getting to know you. It should not be something that feels like a meeting with your boss. So relax, enjoy yourself, be natural, and go with the flow!

About the Author:

Learn how to be yourself and still be loved by a man - I'll show you how to find the courage to be imperfect and be loved in spite of it -- and teach you how to remove the "layers' that keep a man from knowing and loving you. Find out more at http://www.squidoo.com/how-to-tell-if-a-guy-likes-you-alot

Dating Tips for Men: Time Management - Part 1

By Vin DiCarlo

Dating can be your best pal.

...OR your big enemy.

Often, a guy can feel like a slave to his biological need to procreate.

Then there goes a common quote, "He thinks with his... You know."

Well it can be hard to NOT think that way if you aren't physically satisfied.

But men are also goal oriented.

We are doers, and need to achieve things and affect the world in a positive way.

Balancing the two - my urges and achieving my goals is one of the biggest challenges I've personally faced.

When you are single, dating can consume a lot of time. Women will suck away at your time if you don't know what you're doing.

Before you notice it, you are spending hours feeding the birds and cuddling in the park... now nothing wrong with spending a quality time with your girlfriend, AS LONG AS IT DON'T interferes YOUR GOALS IN LIFE.

Goals take time, and so do women.

In fact, it's the nature of a woman to take up the man's time - it's her way of getting you to invest in her. That way if the woman gets pregnant there's a less chance of you leaving (this comes from our caveman days, so to speak).

It is really tricky to manage your time with women. You see, giving their time to women is what most guys WANT to give. By nature men are "givers." They like to please women, protect them, and give them good feelings.

Guys have also a urges that can completely take over your thinking.

Both of these things can get in the way of you making the most of your life, your time.

I want you take a moment and ask this to yourself, "WHAT DO I REALLY WANT TO GIVE TO WOMEN?"

Now I know it wasn't about "money," or "control over my life," or "lots of my free time."

It was probably something like "feeling of safety, good feelings, sexual pleasure, excitement, relaxation, make her smile or feel good about herself, etc."

I think men have problems with how they use their time with women in two ways.

First, they think that the gifts they REALLY wanted to give aren't that valuable, making them overcompensate with other stuff - like spending too much money or time to a girl.

Second, men think that they are "getting" something valuable when a woman spends her time with them.

Guys was brainwash by the society to believe that women are a prize to attain, and that there's some inherent value in a pretty face.

It's not TRUE!

Women are cute, sometimes fun, but ultimately not that important, AND THEY CAN'T COMPLETE YOUR LIFE! The best thing is see a women for what they are, nothing more, nothing less.

Now it can be really hard to break out of this mental prison of feeling inferior to women.

Your mental habits are subtle and hard to notice because you've been doing them for years.

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Online Dating Tips You Need to Know

By Lisa Jaye

So you've heard a lot of great things about online dating from your friends and you think you're ready to give it a try. Now what? How do you get started with online dating?

If you're new, or relatively new to the online dating scene, this article should get you headed down the right path. Follow the tips and recommendation presented here and your initial experiences will be more enjoyable, and yield better results.

Do a search of "online dating" and you will be presented with more than 2.9 MILLION web pages from which to make your selection! But don't let the huge numbers discourage you. Just try refining your search to something more specific like "online dating for Christians" or "online dating for professionals."

If you're looking for a free dating service, you may have to dig a little harder to find something of quality. Free dating sites with lots of members, lots of activity, and lots of member services are pretty hard to come by. You'll understand better after you do a few searches for free dating websites. A search for dating reviews and forums can also be helpful.

With the dating related forums, you can read about good and bad experiences others have had with particular dating and personals web sites. Dating services reviews will give you some good info as well. Look for genuine, unbiased reviews. Many of the dating review sites out there are willy-nilly listings someone threw together to earn commissions.

Another way to find good dating sites is by asking friends and co-workers who may have tried, or are using online dating or personals services. You may be surprised to find out how many of your single friends are members of a personals site.

How Much? Monthly fees vary widely, but the average is around $24. Most dating and singles sites will give you a discount if you pay for two or months in advance. I would suggest you only buy into a one month membership with any new dating service you join. If you decide you like it simply extend your membership. If you don't like the service, you cut your losses at one month, and avoid the hassles of requesting a refund, or canceling billing.

All in all, online dating is a lot of fun and relatively easy to get started with. Do your research, find a dating service that you really like and take it for a spin. Who knows you may find that someone special.

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