I'm too scared to approach girls, how do I get over it? The age old question that has piqued many a PUA's curiosity.
How common is it? There are varying figures available, but it is commonly accepted that something approaching 1.7% of the population will have alopecia to some degree during their lifetime. This includes more than 4 million people in the United States, with both men and women being equally affected. About 25% of people with alopecia have a family history of the disorder (Bertolino, 2000).It all depends on what context she mentions it.
How do I make the girls attracted? This basically comes down to a cocky/funny attitude. You don't want to be bragging and sounding insecure, and you don't want to be telling jokes ala comedian style, but you do want to show that you're really confidant and can tease. The master of this is none other than David DeAngelo. He gives example after example of how to bust on girls and tease them and make them so aggravated yet still dead set on being with you. Busting on girls is an art form, and there is a science to the teasing.What you really want to do at this point is improve your skillset, rather than find your dream woman. Therefore the best place to meet women is where there are lots of them. Bars, clubs, street fairs, crowded malls, etc. Here's the litmus test: ""Within an hour can I talk to 10 attractive girls if I want to""? You know, you're not alone in this. In his early days, before he had even kissed a girl, at age 21, a man named Mystery hated bars and clubs. They were too loud for him.
How do I make the girls attracted? This basically comes down to a cocky/funny attitude. You don't want to be bragging and sounding insecure, and you don't want to be telling jokes ala comedian style, but you do want to show that you're really confidant and can tease. The master of this is none other than David DeAngelo. He gives example after example of how to bust on girls and tease them and make them so aggravated yet still dead set on being with you. Busting on girls is an art form, and there is a science to the teasing.Yes. A few conditions prevent us from entering our medically supervised diet. These include: Type I diabetes, unstable angina, end-stage liver disease and end-stage kidney disease as they are approaching dialysis, and pregnancy or women who are breastfeeding.
She's touching me, should I touch her back? If I'm doing an indirect approach and a girl's touching me right away, I won't give in. Usually she's testing for validation to see how fast I jump to touch her back. I'll say 'Hands off the merchandise!' and move her hands off. Then ""That's 20 dollars a touch!"" At that point she'll start touching me again and again, and I'll count the amount she owes me. Eventually I'll just let out a big sigh and 'give up' and let her touch me. It's all playful.What you really want to do at this point is improve your skillset, rather than find your dream woman. Therefore the best place to meet women is where there are lots of them. Bars, clubs, street fairs, crowded malls, etc.
I'm totally new to all of this. Is a bootcamp for me? Clients who have never approached a woman in their lives are usually a mixed set. For some of them, it is simply a matter of opening their eyes to the possibilities. For others, it is major work to get them comfortable approaching women. It really comes down to approach anxiety and how quickly you can get past it to focus on the real skill-building that is our specialty.If she's in a small group of a couple girls, you can go direct if you're smooth enough. If you're getting blown out consistently going direct (just saying hi and being friendly), you should switch to indirect game for a bit. Once you get more field experience, it should be much easier to go direct and just say what's up.
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