One Night Stands and the Pick Up Artist II

By Vin DiCarlo


There's one thing you need to know when going for a one-night stand - You cannot always bring home the hottest girl in the place.

You can get a solid number from her, but its not a guarantee that you can take her home because whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy, it varies widely in particular night.

However, there are LOTS of horny women moving around the clubs and bar anytime of the day that are open in getting lay that same day or night. And all you have to do is have a knowledge and ability to spot them.

Some of the few things that you should look for are on the way how they dressed up and on the way how they put some make-up. Many women exerts a lot of hard work just to look beautiful. And you know there is a reason for it.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.

You will also know that a woman is seeking attention when she is so loud, hyper and animated.

Lastly, I look for women who are looking around the room more than the other girls in their group. A lot of times, you'll see groups of two or three women all standing around with blank expressions, scoping the room.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Just take these in mind, that when you approach you don't go into full-steam running your clever routines and cocky frame control stuff. You have to take it easy.

You have to let them know that you are interested in meeting them, A simple "hey ladies, you all look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough. Its just have to be light, warming and social.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

This will be against a woman's "rules" and she'll definitely be keeping distance from you. And you really need a logistic information to know how you can get her back to your place.

The important thing here is to act as NOT trying to pick her up and eliminating any overt sensual intention.

You must have the willingness to control the situation and knows how to enjoy while having the escalation in the right way.

It may sound counter intuitive, but that's how it works.

You must trust that women wants to be in bed and there are a lot of women in the club, bar or in any venue that wants to get a same day lay.

Some will and some won't, and what you should know is to figure out and proceed to get them.

I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

That's a HUGE waste of time.

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