Does meeting with women seems like a WORK to you?
And do you ever feel despite all your hard work you're not even closer to your goal?
If you answered YES to either of those questions, then READ ON.
I'm not going to lie, the dating game can be quite frustrating.
You are interested in a woman that has a boyfriend.
Everything is going smooth and fine between you and a woman and then just suddenly she's not returning or answering your calls.
Though of course we know that it is the man that exerts a lot of moves in order to make things right and moving.
YOU have to have the courage to approach.
YOU have to keep the conversation going at first, YOU have to escalate physically, YOU have to get HER number or rack your brain to figure out a logistical way to take her home, YOU have to plan the date.
Not to mention there are much higher standards for men's behavior than women.
(Let's not started on that...let's just say women are allowed to get away with sub-par behavior just because they are "beautiful.")
It can be pretty exhausting, especially if you're not "extroverted" by nature.
... I have often heard a complain about "extroversion fatigue" from a client of mine.
I knew exactly what he meant because I used to struggle with it too.
Looking back I used to teach myself about pick-up, I would go out, talking to three or four women and then find myself mentally DRAINED.
I would have to sit down and rest!
Think about how strange that is. In a situation where you are supposed to be having fun and RELAX, I was instead working harder than I was at my full time job.
I would go home and be absolutely DEAD
... from SPEAKING TO WOMEN!
Does that make any sense???
There you see the general dating fatigue. There's an ups and downs in the emotions, results that is discouraging, in the hard work that I make just to get women to hang out with me or be in bed with me.
I feel I am working overtime just like a full time job!
When I first got in this game, I literally had to force myself to go out and pickup ALL DAY for days on end. (I admit, I was a nerd, and pushed it to the extreme.)
But what can I say, I was passionate about learning all this stuff (and not to mention extremely eager for results after years of sexual frustration).
It's like a professional athletes that pushes themselves in the gym, that is how I pursue myself.
I was forming NEW NEUROPATHWAYS and working on my muscles that I've never done before.
If you are working too hard in your interactions with women. then you can relate to any of this.
About the Author:
Vin DiCarlo is a professional dating trainer, who's highly advance website DiCarlo DiClassified and see what he has to say about VH1's Mystery the Pick Up Artist show.
