Pick Up Artist Secrets: Attracting a "10

By Vin DiCarlo


Are you interested in meeting, attracting and keeping a "10" kind of a woman? If yes, then you will find the letter very interesting.

But first off, let go waaay back...

It was in my high school, that there was a girl in my class who was seems so perfect.

That girl was so beautiful, cool and smart that it was hard to look at her (and yet I can't take my eyes off away from her)...

She was one of the popular kids, but was friendly to everyone.

We talked occasionally, and looking back I realize we were flirting (I was too stupid to realize at the time).

I was really wanted to ask her to senior prom... but at the last minute I chickened out.

It was a few years later that I realized that the girl had a crushed on me all the senior year.

I've talked to a lot of guys and this experience seems pretty common, there was this ONE SPECIAL GIRL who you crushed on from afar, or you missed an opportunity with her, or she broke your heart...

Ah, the elusive "10," the perfect girl that every guy wants but never seems to attain.

I have so many things to say about this so-called "10's." In one word they are women of another "breed," but at the same time, what makes them so is in the way they think.

Understanding your own fascination with female perfection, and understanding the reality of extremely beautiful women will help you resolve this conundrum, and maybe help you find that "perfect girl" for yourself.

First of all, "10" is just a myth. No human being can be considered as perfect. You CANNOT say that a woman who looks prettier than the women is more "valuable".

The only true "10" is the one that's perfect for you, a woman that turns you on, whom you have great chemistry with.

Following this reasoning, the world is full of 10's, given you have the skills to meet a lot of women and create options for yourself.

Treating a woman differently than other women just because she is prettier is a recipe for failure.

Why?

Because a lot of guys do that.

A woman knows what you're thinking and sees you as shallow.

But there definitely are certain women that seem on another "level" of beauty than the rest. These women get treated much differently than other women.

This is important to understand so that you know how to deal with these kinds of women.

As what I've said, you shouldn't treat women "differently."

Let me clarify.

You shouldn't treat them BETTER than other women. But there are a couple things you need to know.

First, she don't like a guy that chases her for her looks alone.

She wants to be appreciated for her personality more than anything else.

Now for the sake of yours, I''ll be giving you a heads up.

There are two types of "10's."

High self esteem, and low self-esteem.

Low self esteem 10's are pretty common. They are used to being wanted for their looks, but they know that they didn't EARN that attention, so they have a guilt complex.

In fact, they are in complete dumbasses or most probably their lives have been coasted.

It may sounds not good but I call it like it is.

These women take away their validation will make them flip out and do anything to get it back. They also respond to jerk-behavior.

Anything.

(As a side, these girls usually suck in bed and are total head cases when you get involved with them.)

Meanwhile, the high self-esteem 10's are women that have had a taste of the elite - early from the start they realized that high levels of society were attainable to them, they exert an effort be intelligent, successful and make the most of their lives.

These women know that they are just a little closer to a great life than everyone else, and so they are motivated to put in the extra effort.

Usually HSE 10's are intellegent, have good attitudes, have a direction in life and have lots of interests beyond being clubbing.

Actually, most of beautiful women I've dated didn't even go to the club. They like to spend their evenings being with their families, reading, or having a nice dinner with friends (or studying if they were in college).

Another interesting thing is that these women are single for long periods of time while in-between boyfriends. Why?

The women here have a high standards for themselves, and this makes most guys either too intimidated to approached and ask them out, or act too needy and pathetic around them, it's seldom they meet another man who is at the same level with them.

But here's the good news. You will find these women the easiest to attract when you understand The Attraction Code.

Being the best man you can be and being a "male 10" is what you will get from these Attraction Code.

You will notice an interesting thing if you start to apply the Attraction Code.

There is an Auto-Rejection Mechanism that I call where some women will try to protect themselves from being rejected by you, by rejecting YOU first. This is where you'll get odd responses from less attractive women - they will occasionally be rude to you because they know they're not on your level.

But the most attractive, cool women will respond much differently... you'll be surprised to see the most beautiful women warm right up to you as soon as you approach - whether on the street or in the bar - because they can see that you are on their "level."

She thinks to herself, "finally, a guy who can hang with me; he's confident and treats me like a real person. And he's the only guy who's actually tried to talk to me today, instead of whistling from his car."

The Attraction Code is meant for these kinds of women. Of course you'll also enjoy plenty of "adventures" with all kinds of women, but ultimately this is about having the option of dating the hottest, highest quality women.

There are bunch of 10's out there waiting for you.

Don't waste you're time waiting for nothing.

Vin

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Online Dating Advice for Men - Writing a Killer Profile

By Chris Benjamin


One of the best ways to practice surefire dating techniques is to work on meeting women online. There are a lot of advantages to online dating, like having time to really think out your responses and not having to deal with the sting of rejections that are so difficult in real-life. But what is the key to getting noticed online? The secret lies in your online profile.

Your profile is your chance to make a first impression with potential dates online, so you need to take care to do it right. If you blow it, you will find yourself asking why you aren't getting any responses. Writing a profile is actually an art form, and it is actually pretty simple when you get down to it.

First off, there are a few deal-breakers you need to avoid at all costs when writing a profile. Whatever you do, do not announce what a nice guy you are. This is one of the most common mistakes newcomers to online dating sites make. Avoid writing a resume-style description of your life, your job, or yourself. And please, please, whatever you do, resist the urge to post that picture of you doing a keg-stand with the guys, no matter how funny you think it is.

Okay, so if these are all no-no's, what can you do to ensure success? Good question. Start off by making yourself sound confident and fun, not needy and desperate. In other words, hook them with humor.

In the words of David Deangelo - being cocky-funny is the fastest route to being noticed, both online and off. This rule especially applies to your profile! This might mean playing a little hard to get, implying that a woman will have to work to get your attention, or just indicating that any woman who catches your eye is one lucky lady.

Rule number two: don't ramble on and on. Leave them wanting more, not less. Make them guess a little bit, instead of laying it all out there. Women love a little mystery, and if you make them wonder instead of telling them straight away, it will drive them crazy.

Last, but not least, use a photo that is current, interesting, and unique to you. If you are an outdoorsy type, use a good shot from a hike. If you travel a lot, post an image of yourself in an exotic place. Do not post a picture from 5 years ago. Be certain that the lighting and angle are flattering. The idea is to look like yourself, at your best.

Just remember these three tips: use humor to draw women in, keep it brief, and seal the deal with a picture that sells the image you want to get across. You can't go wrong if you follow this advice.

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The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands II

By Vin DiCarlo


First of all, you can't always get the hottest woman in the venue to go home with you for a one-night stand.

You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.

I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.

I also look for women who are being loud and animated. They are subconsciously looking for attention from men.

And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

The woman will force herself to keep distance from you because that is against her "rules". And you need a logistic information in order to figure out how to bring her back to your place

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.

Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.

I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

It will just be a waste of time.

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Sex and the Senior

By Sid Senior


In case you are not aware of it, seniors are having sex. In fact, they are having more and more sex in later and later years. Seniors are surprised to learn that their senior sex can be much more rewarding than they had anticipated. After their kids have grown up and moved out, and the seniors no longer have jobs to sap their time and their energy, they have more time to concentrate on the mission at hand.

It helps if you are creative and willing to try a few things for the first or second time. So try a different position for a change. Maybe you will find that you can achieve happier outcomes by putting more time into the foreplay.

The things that you are eating and drinking have an impact on your senior sex life. Your fruits and vegetables are going to help. Your drinking of too much in the way of alcoholic beverages is not going to help.

Your sex will be better if you are keeping in good shape by exercising your body. A fit body makes for happier times when it comes time for senior sex. Your fit body will give you the strength and long-lasting stamina you desire. Most seniors find that their sex life is better at certain times of day. Save yourself for those prime moments.

Thinking that your physical health is all that matters? Think again! Your mental health is just as important as your physical health when it comes to your sexual activity. Your attitude and your confidence level are very important. Any anxiety, stress or depression is going to destroy your enjoyment. You cannot afford to fall into the worry trap.

Are you thinking that your body does not look as good as it did once upon a time? Well, you are right. Fortunately, the same situation exists for that partner of yours. However, your partner still wants you.

Another of the secrets of good sex is good communication. Most likely, the other person has the same concerns as you. Being able to share your doubts with your partner can serve to reduce some of the anxiety the two of you may be experiencing.

Alas, your sexual desire can be inhibited by some of the medications that you have been taking. Also your sexual performance can be inhibited by those same medications. A trip to your doctor's office can result in some valuable information. Your doctor will be familiar with the known side effects of anything that you may be taking. Maybe the doctor can decrease the dosage amounts or be able to suggest some other forms of treatment for whatever ails you.

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Discount Office Furniture Helpful Hints And Reviews

By Gardner Stephens


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What if I have a complaint? We are determined to provide the easiest and best way to buy furniture online, and we are not satisfied unless all our customers are delighted with their experience of shopping at Antler Office Furniture. In the unlikely event that you do not enjoy your experience of shopping with us , please tell us by email of freephone on 0800 389 5075 or 0808 787 7097 during office hours 9am - 5pm.All of our products come with a full manufacturer's warranty. These vary in length but are for a minimum of one year. Specifics on getting warranty service will depend on the item, the nature of the problem, the manufacturer and your location. Further details on manufacturer's warranties will generally be attached when you get your new furniture. Your statutory rights are not affected. This figure applies to all purchases under ?250 with the exception of Lesco products which is ?15.00.We proudly offer a 9-year guarantee, free of charge. Most of our competitors charge substantially for this extended guarantee.

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What are your phone hours? Call 1- or e-mail us for product questions, billing inquiries or for any other questions. Furniture Online is ""Amazing for Customer Service"" - Rhonda Layton, - as quoted in The New York Times Privacy/Security | Closeouts | FAQs | Site Map | Contact Us | Customer Comments | FREE 9 Year GuaranteeThe Discount Furniture Warehouse is a furniture retailer specializing in living room furniture, dining room furniture, bedroom furniture, case goods and accent pieces. As a warehouse with little overhead we are able to provide high-quality, name brand products at a price that is among the lowest you'll find anywhere. We offer products ranging from manufacturer clearance items to the latest styles and selections and made to order products.We add shipping and handling in separately to save our customers money.

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Senior Sex

By Sid Senior


Seniors do have sex. Sexual activity continues into later years. In fact, many seniors discover that senior sex is even better than expected. Having the children grown and gone, and without jobs consuming time and energy, you find you are able to relax more.

Good results can be achieved by those of you who are imaginative. Be creative and try new things. Perhaps a new position will have a positive effect. See if foreplay produces more play.

In case you do not know it already, what you eat and drink does affect your life of senior sex. Fruits and vegetables produce good results for you. Too many alcoholic beverages will produce bad results for you.

Your sex will be better if you are keeping in good shape by exercising your body. A fit body makes for happier times when it comes time for senior sex. Your fit body will give you the strength and long-lasting stamina you desire. Most seniors find that their sex life is better at certain times of day. Save yourself for those prime moments.

Your physical health is not the only ingredient for good senior sex. You also need good mental health. Things like confidence and attitude make a big difference. Anxiety, stress and depression are sex killers as well as life killers. You do not want to get into the bad habit of worrying about your performance.

Granted, your face and your body have aged somewhat and may not appear quite as appealing as before. Do you really think that is going to make much of a difference. Your partner is in the same aging boat. Just the same, that person is still your partner and still very interested in you.

One of the keys to good senior sex is to have good communication with the other person in the equation. That other person is going to be having the same doubts that you do. If you are able to share your feelings you are able to lessen the concerns shared by you both.

It is sad but true that necessary medications are able to diminish your previously strong sexual urges. Those same medications can decrease the level of your sexual performance. Fortunately, you are able to talk with the doctor prescribing the medications. That doctor should be able to explain to you whatever side effects may come with what you are consuming. Also, perhaps your dosage could be reduced. You also may be able to switch to other treatments.

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Is It Fun or Feel like Work Meeting Women? - Part II

By Vin DiCarlo


Here are the 3 reasons for this.

First, being socially proactive may be new to you.

I remember the first time I started weight lifting, I don't have an upper pectoral muscles - the muscle right at the top of your chest just under your clavicle that make your chest look big.

Actually I did, but they were so small and weak, it took a good three weeks to even begin to feel them. Every time I worked them out I was incredibly sore and could barely move my arms.

And then I reached a tipping point of sorts, where the muscle was developed enough that I could handle big amounts of weight without all the soreness and fatigue. Your mind is the same way.

It takes time to develop these new neuro-pathways on your own. If you're not pushing yourself HARD day in-day out, it can take awhile, depending on your skill level.

The second reason that can cause a feeling of social fatigue is that when you think that there is too much to do or learn when meeting women.

Actually this is more on having an overwhelmed feeling and has somewhat a little different from "fatigue."

When you feel overwhelmed by something, it can frazzle your mind, and lead to a sort of depression, or discouragement, which may feel like exhaustion if you're not deeply aware. It's like your body is saying "ugh, it's too much work. I give up before I can even begin."

This will hold you back from DOING ANYTHING. I suffered from this kind of feeling when I started putting a lot of my theories on paper. I looked at my notes and felt like I was looking at one of those huge, complex physics equations.

It was discouraging to think that I had to do almost all the needed things just to get a good quality of women.

Lastly, you will feel socially exhausted for your dating and mating game, when you spend a lot of effort and focus on stuff in wrong situation and find out it was not helpful to your pick-up.

99 percent of men gets it wrong when it comes to attracting women. The thing is, the woman usually can't tell, because most men after suffering from a few harsh rejections learn to hide their inner "stuff."

But this doesn't deny the truth that when the average guy is attracted to a woman, he exerts his effort and mental energy on trying to impress the woman, or figure out if she likes him.

It's the man's role to IMPRESS the woman and EARN a fulfillment for your urge from her - as what we get from the media, our parents and friends.

Ridiculous!

I hate seeing an advertisement of a guy that bumbling around a cute girl trying to impress her, even though he looks like a fool while the girl giggles like she's better than him because she's a girl.

Ok, enough for that protest... my point here is that so many guys are being screwed when it comes to the control of their dating game.

But if a guy takes the time to adjust the way his MIND works when it comes to attraction, it changes everything.

Once you get to highest level of your interaction with women, you will truly be attractive to them. You just need to be at your best both physically and emotionally.

A GUY AT HIS BEST.

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