The Pick Up Artist and One Night Stands II

By Vin DiCarlo


First of all, you can't always get the hottest woman in the venue to go home with you for a one-night stand.

You can get a solid number from her, but whether or not a woman is open to going home with a guy on a particular night varies widely.

But there are lots of horny women that are open to get physically fast and wants to get laid that same day or night. All you have to do is know how to spot them in any situation whether it is a day or night or in the club, bar and park.

I look for a few things - first, I notice how they are dressed, how much makeup they have on, etc. If they look like they put a lot of work in to being pretty, it was for a reason.

The reason is they want to be approached. Although it isn't always true but is generally the case.

I also look for women who are being loud and animated. They are subconsciously looking for attention from men.

And the last thing that I look for, are women that are all standing and scoping around the room with blank expressions. Also those women that is looking around the room more often than the other girls in their group.

These women are obviously making themselves out there, waiting to be notice by men.

Now you have to take this in mind -- Avoid running your clever routines into full-stream and your cocky frame control stuff when approaching those women.

Just be light, social, and let them know you are interested in meeting them. A simple "hey, you guys look great tonight. Special occasion?" is enough.

To discuss openly that you want her in bed and looking to take her home can put a woman into a a point to agree and bang with you, implicitly. So try not to make it obvious that it is your main purpose.

Or also, build sensual tension with her, as we discuss heavily in our workshops.

The woman will force herself to keep distance from you because that is against her "rules". And you need a logistic information in order to figure out how to bring her back to your place

The real key to all this is subtracting any overt sensual intention, and not trying to pick her up.

Just enjoy yourself while escalating appropriately and have a willingness to control the situation.

Although it may seem as counter intuitive, but this is how it works.

You have to trust that women wants to get in bed, and that a lot of the women in the venue wants to lay NOW.

Some won't, but some will, and that's why it's key that you get a sense of what to look for, and how to proceed.

I know you don't what to invest a lot of your time to pick the right girl and then just mess it up after a long interaction. Or to spend your time to a wrong girl or worse.

It will just be a waste of time.

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